I try to never be so vain as to judge another persons life. Knowing full well that the only thing I know is what works best for my life. It seems vanity to stand at a distance outside of someones life and believe that you know better what that persons life needs. Life is never simple. Most likely when we look at someone elses life and vainly feel we know how to simply solve the problems in another persons life, we are only able to hold onto the delusion of knowing better, because infact we know so little about what is a very complicated and unique life. Again, judging someone elses life is all vanity.